Our adoption story has been quite the journey. Officially, it began in December 2013 as we applied to Lifeline Children Services to enter their Ethiopia program to pursue adopting a baby boy. Unofficailly, though, this journey began many years before that.
You see, we are all adopted. As believers in Christ, the moment we confess Jesus as Lord we are adopted into the family of God. This reality is astonishing, and God makes it clear in His Word that we are to care for the vulnerable, such as orphans and widows (James 1:27). His Word also tells us that He will put the lonely into families (Psalm 68:6).
We are the Moraleses, and because of God's calling through scripture we have chosen to build our family through adoption.
When we began dating in September 2010, we began talking about adopting a child early on in our relationship. As our relationship grew, so did our desire to adopt, so Jason went ahead and set up a savings plan for us, since we knew that adoption is a huge financial responsibility, before, during, and after the adoption is complete.
When we got married in September of 2012, we had conversations about what we wanted out of our marriage and a family. Through prayer, and really just a sense of peace, we knew that it was right for us to adopt before trying to have biological children. We knew that God could have another plan, but for our planning purposes, we decided to hold off on the bio kids and work toward pursuing adoption.
Adopting from Ethiopia - Judah Saylor
Around our one year anniversary, we decided that we wanted to begin the adoption process sooner than later. I know that every family is different, but for us, it was literally like from one day to the next, we just new it was time. We prayed and asked God for provision on what age/gender/country/agency we should choose. After some time in prayer and a lot of research, we decided that God was leading us to adopt a baby boy from Ethiopia through Lifeline Children's Services.
Another thing we were diligently seeking and praying through from the start was a name for our son. We wanted to name our child early on so that we can pray for a specific name and become attached to something tangible. So, a few weeks in, Jason and I laid in bed for hours one Sunday morning just pouring over names that we liked. And finally, we said this name out loud, just to try it out, and we new this was it: Judah Saylor Morales.
Well, as previously stated, this journey has a lot of layers, and we hope that you will read through the blog to see how things have unfolded for us. But after 3.5 years, a closed placing agency, and a lot of setbacks, we had to end our process to adopt a child from Ethiopia (read more about that here).
our beautiful detour - brighten storie
In the spring of 2016, we began to feel a nudge. We were still wrestling through what the impact of the closing of our original placing agency would have on our family, and we began praying about what it would look like to begin a domestic adoption process alongside our Ethiopia process. We decided not to go through an agency, but instead updated our home study and began contacting adoption attorneys who might be able to help us out. Another long story short, we adopted Brighten Storie Morales and had the chance to even be there for her birth on September 22, 2016 (our 4th wedding anniversary)! You can read Brighten's Stories here:
Where we are now
For the first time in almost four years, we are not in an adoption process. We are on hold with Lifeline and we are praying about our next steps and spending time watching our little girl grow up. We truly believe that we are still called to adopt Judah Saylor, but our search for him is going to be a little more unknown.
Adoption is truly our hearts' desire for our family, and we continue to pray for that to manifest itself in a way that would be glorifying to God. We also continue to pray for God to call more and more families to consider adoption and foster care, and we love supporting fellow adoptive families as well.
We would love to hear from you if you would like to talk to us about adoption - domestic or international. We have experienced both, and would love to opportunity to pray for you and with you as you seek to discover God's calling for your family and ours.